Be Brave Enough to Define Success on Your Own way:
“Define success on your own terms, achieve it by your own rules, and build a life You’re proud to live.” ~ Anne Sweeney
There are already numerous books, articles, podcasts out
there trying to bottle up the word success and come up with a definition that
stands true for each one of us.
Let’s talk about two individuals — Eva and Rachel — both working
in the same industry. Eva is an ambitious young woman who wants to have a
successful career, travel to new countries, meet new people and live an
independent life.
Rachel is one of those girls who wants to have the best of
both worlds. She always dreamt of getting married, going to an office, coming
back and spending time with her family. This was how she has imagined her life
all these years with all her priorities in place.
Coming back to Eva, she gets an offer from a leading MNC
headquartered in another country offering her a fat pay cheque and other
impressive benefits. She takes up the job as it perfectly aligned with her
dream.
Whereas, Rachel is happy within her city, keeping her
priorities intact and willingly balancing both sides of the spectrum.
Now, who in your opinion, is more successful — Eva or
Rachel?
If you ask me, both are equally successful on their part.
Each one of them knew what they wanted in life and got it. That’s success for
me — you respect what makes you happy and work hard to achieve it.
Happiness equals success
I believe that happiness and success go hand in hand — you
can’t be truly successful if you aren’t happy from inside.
It’s sad how the society has ingrained the notion in our
mind that success is directly linked with money. The more money you make, the
more successful you are.
Whereas what should be more talked about is whether what we
are doing is bringing us happiness or not.
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to
success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
What success means to me
Without beating around the bush, a successful day means
moving forward, learning new skills, and having a good time with my loved ones.
I know that I’d be able to crush my day when it is
well-planned and goals are broken into smaller chunks of tasks.
Not just this, I like to plan extensively and I love making
to-do lists. Trust me, nothing is more satisfying than ticking off tasks from
your daily to-do list as it fills you with a sense of purpose and keeps you
focused.
When you are focused, you get more done that largely
contributes to your success. When all these things are coupled together, every
single day is a success for me — whether I am working at my office or chilling
with my family.
In the end I just want to say that,
When you sit back to contemplate your version of success,
focus on creating a life you’d love to live in and the one that brings bouts of
happiness along with it.
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